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Dr. Safer On The Daily Show!

I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics Podcast – Available Now!


Do you have a spouse who voted for a different candidate?​ An uncle or sibling you dread seeing at Thanksgiving? A lifelong friend with whom you just can’t see eye to eye? As political divisiveness reaches a fever pitch in the Trump era, psychotherapist Jeanne Safer takes on the uncivil war between Republicans, Democrats, and every indie party in between in the new podcast, I Love You But I Hate Your Politics. On the show, Dr. Safer shows family and friends how to ensure their loving relationships not only survive, but thrive, despite political differences and disagreements.

Jeanne & Rick
Your host Jeanne talks to her husband about their 40 years of politically-mixed marriage. Then they sing a song.

Additional episodes available on Apple Podcasts and Stitcher

Check out this interview with C-Span!

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In my books, lectures and psychotherapy practice, I’ve made “Taboo Topics” my specialty. I offer new perspectives on such neglected issues as difficult siblings (I am the only therapist in the United States who specializes in treating “normal” siblings of the disabled and dysfunctional), women making choices about motherhood or who have chosen not to have children, whether we should always forgive, and the positive consequences of a parent’s death. Everything I write about is based on my personal experience as well as in-depth reserch.

Here you’ll find information about my books, read excerpts from them and glean advice. You can also read articles by and about me and link to my media appearances and radio broadcasts. I’m delighted to be blogging on all sorts of “Taboo Topics” for Psychology Today.

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I want to share what forty years of experience as a psychotherapist has taught me about psychological transformation and self-actualization in a one-size-fits-all world. I write for those who want to think and feel for themselves and are not afraid to look within.

Books by Dr. Safer (click any of the covers below for more info)