Professional Lectures:

"This Thing of Darkness: Transferences of 'Normal' Siblings to their Abnormal Brothers and Sisters"
Invited Paper, Division of Psychoanalysis Spring Meeting, Philadelphia, April 2006

"The Normal One: The Inner World of Siblings of the Mentally and Physically Ill" Panel presentation, Division of Psychoanalysis, American Psychological Association, New York City, April 2005

"The Secret Life of Siblings of the Mentally and Physically Ill"
Invited address, Ontario Psychiatric Association, Toronto, January 2005

"The Normal One," Westchester Psychological Association, White Plains, December 2004

"Siblings of the Facially Different," National Foundation for Facial Reconstruction, New York University Hospital, New York City, May 2003

"The Normal One," Meet the Author, Division of Psychoanalysis of the American Psychological Association Annual Meeting, Minneapolis, April 2003

"The Normal One: The Emotional Life of Siblings of Chronically Ill Children," Eugene Lehey Memorial Grand Rounds, Primary Children's Medical Center, Salt Lake City, March 2003

"Healthy Siblings," Pediatric Grand Rounds, New York University/Bellevue Hospitals January 2003

Public Lectures:

"Forgiveness", Interview with call-ins, National Public Radio's Talk of the Nation, January 2008

"Must We Forgive?" Center for Religious Inquiry, New York City, September 11, 2007

"The Normal One" Makor Center of the 92 St. Y, New York City, November, 2006

"Must We Forgive?" Center for Religious Inquiry, New York City, September 2006

"Must We Forgive?" Discussion Group, Makor Center, November 2005

"Forgiving and Not Forgiving" Center for Religious Inquiry, New York City, October 2005

"Dreams Tell the Truth: Unlocking the Secrets of the Night" Makor Center, June 2005

"Must We Forgive?" Makor Center, January 2005

"The Lifelong Connection: Parents and Sisters and Brothers of Individuals with Developmental Disabilities", Association for the Help of Retarded Children, New York City, November 2003

"The Normal One" Makor Center, October 2003

"The Normal One", Live interview with call-ins on National Public Radio's Talk of the Nation, October 2003

Reading and Signing The Normal One, Barnes and Noble, New York City, October 2003

"Meeting the Needs of All Your Children," Association for the Help of Retarded Children, New York City, November 2002

"Forgiving and Not Forgiving," National Arts Club, New York City, September 1999

"Self-Acceptance," Keynote Address, Life in Balance Seminar, Mohonk Mountain House, New Paltz, New York, January 1996

"Confessions of a Recovering Perfectionist," Mohonk Mountain House, January 1994

"Hiring or Firing Your Shrink," 92 St. YM-YWHA, New York City, June 1994