Books

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The Normal One
Life with a Difficult or Damaged Sibling

Finalist, Books for a Better Life Award

“I recognized myself on almost every page….I wish I had read [The Normal One] earlier in my life.”
—Barbara Walters from her memoir Audition

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Forgiving and Not Forgiving
Why Sometimes It's Better Not to Forgive

“Jeanne Safer offers a brave and compassionate voice on a taboo subject with insight and clarity. Memorably engrossing, this book offers support and guidance to an often bewildering human emotional process.”
—Susan Forward, PhD

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Beyond Motherhood
Choosing a Life Without Children

Finalist, Books for a Better Life Award

“Beyond Motherhood is written with an impressive clarity and spareness. It’s honest, smart, brave, funny, and makes you think about things you don’t think about.”
—Peggy Noonan

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Death Benefits
How Losing a Parent Can Change an Adult's Life—for the Better

“It’s not all bad news.” Writes psychotherapist Jeanne Safer, PhD in her taboo-breaking first sentence, “The death of your parents can be the best thing that ever happens to you.” That’s not a no-more-tears prescription: it’s a strategy for getting a payback from your pain. Safer tells how a midlife orphan can sort through memories, salvaging what heals, packing away guilt and resentment, perhaps even unearthing a legacy of love.
—O: The Oprah magazine